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The Beauty of Conflict: Harnessing Your Team?s Competitive Advantage Paperback – October 29, 2017
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No one likes conflict—but that doesn’t mean you have to avoid it. Learn how to turn those “Oh, Sh*t! Moments,” when opinions and personalities clash, into the juice that powers your team to great results or new heights.
Politics. Confusion. Factions. Gossip. Turnover. If you lead a team, you may see conflict as the worst part of your job. You may see it as counterproductive, dysfunctional, and a waste of time because team members are not dealing with each other—maybe not even speaking. You may see lost opportunities, inspiration, cohesiveness, and ultimately, productivity.
But what if you could see…results?
That’s what The Beauty of Conflict: Harnessing Your Team’s Competitive Advantage is all about.
Written by life and business partners CrisMarie Campbell and Susan Clarke, The Beauty of Conflict shows you how the perfect storm that occurs when vision, opinion, and passion come together can be fertile ground for creativity and innovation. By leaning in to those inevitable oh, sh*t! moments when people clash, you’ll unleash the juice that powers your team’s competitive advantage. You’ll learn to:
- Utilize the potential energy of conflict
- Guide your team through difficult moments
- Bridge differences between people to boost your team’s IQ
- Use conflict to spark innovation and team transformation
- Increase trust, engagement and profit
Featuring true stories and practical examples drawn from the authors’ 25 years of experience working with Fortune 500 and other major companies, The Beauty of Conflict will show you how to lead your team past the discomfort, embrace their differences—and leverage those oh, sh*t! moments into increased productivity and profitability.
- Print length296 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateOctober 29, 2017
- Dimensions6 x 0.67 x 9 inches
- ISBN-100999450107
- ISBN-13978-0999450109
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Editorial Reviews
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“CrisMarie and Susan were instrumental in helping a ‘smart’ but ‘unhealthy’ team of mine work through some very serious, yet largely unspoken, conflicts. It wasn’t a fast or easy process, but we’re now the team that I knew we could be. The powerful techniques in The Beauty of Conflict had a huge impact on our teamwork and engagement—and we’re having more fun and delivering even better results.”
--Mike Keller Nationwide CIO
"I was introduced to CrisMarie and Susan when they came in to work with our leadership team at Microsoft. I really value their perspective on teams, conflict and building trust through vulnerability, curiosity and real-team work on business issues. I have reused their materials over and over to great success with leaders and teams. I'm thrilled that this book is now out for other leaders. Their style is real, personal and practical. It’s a must-read for a leader wanting to build strong relationships and get great business results.”
--Kim Hardgraves Microsoft Director, Business Operations & Compliance
"In an industry that has its roots in command and control, the concepts in this book provide a clear path for creating high-performing teams and a humane company culture. After having been first introduced to the Thrive! team seven years ago, I'm still getting great value from our work with Thrive! This is a must-read for any leader wanting to influence change on their team and in their organization overall.”
-- Catharine Farrow TMAC Resources CEO
“We partnered with Thrive! during a crucial time in our growth. We applied the Thrive! Team and communication tools to help us enhance the performance of our leadership team and improve our company culture, which contributed significantly to our success going public as one of the top five performing IPOs of 2016!”
--Evan Fein Impinj CFO
"I worked with Thrive! on two different teams: one I was a member of and one I lead. Each time Thrive!’s work was game-changing for our business. Our ability to work productively with conflict real-time, changed conflict into not a problem but a resource for creative and innovative problem solving. Our work with Thrive! helped transform not only my team but my entire organization. This book is a must read for anyone wanting to create organizational change.”
--Andrew Walker, Nationwide Bank President
“We have been married nearly 25 years and in business together for even longer so clearly we’ve learned to “manage” conflict. If not, we’d be either dead, divorced, or the business would have dissolved by now. We felt we had a good handle on this but after working with Susan and CrisMarie, we learned how to go beyond just managing conflict to actually harnessing the power (and the beauty!) of conflict to make our partnership — both personal and professional — even more powerful. Why settle for resolving conflict when you can turn it into a competitive advantage?”
--Greg & Jenifer Lambert TERRA Staffing Group, CEO and VP
“Conflict is never my favorite thing, and truth-telling can lead to conflict. But I've found that when we face this fact with integrity, an alchemical change turns coworkers into true creators. CrisMarie and Susan describe this process in Beauty of Conflict, and I'd recommend this book to anyone who wants to improve team performance at work or anywhere else.”
“Who knew that growing up in a big Italian family full of conflict would provide me with the perfect training for business...an MBA at the dinner table! Susan and CrisMarie give us tools on how to embrace, bring out, use, and channel conflict to help teams get more out of each other and make better business decisions. This book is a must read for teams who want to be better together."
--Pete Ungaro, Cray CEO
“CrisMarie and Susan were critically important in the early formation of the leadership team at Theravance. The culture they helped create has transcended any particular employee at this point, and the company is thriving. I am thankful to them both. They’ve written an important book designed to help leaders break through the barriers of those inevitable personality clashes and leverage them for your team’s competitive advantage.”
--Mathai Mammen, Global Head of Research and Development, Janssen Inc. Johnson & Johnson Company
"Many leaders see conflict as a sign of an unhealthy team, but as The Beauty of Conflict pointedly shows, this is a huge mistake. Leaders who learn to leverage healthy conflict for the good of their team will forge a culture that Thrives in the face of uncertainty. The Beauty of Conflict gives you the awareness and tools to help your team fight fair."
-- Todd Henry, author of The Accidental Creative
"The Beauty of Conflict provides the practical model for becoming and influential leader, creating high-performing teams and transforming conflict into innovative results- no small undertaking! CrisMarie and Susan partnered with us to develop our leadership team, senior leaders, and managers. Their approach outlined in The Beauty of Conflict is practical, sound and effective."
-- Amy Whaley, VP of People Services, Marchex
"I partnered with thrive! in the midst of a transition. They’re now my trusted team advisors. Not only do CrisMarie and Susan clearly reflect back how they see me so I become a better leader, they work with my leadership team and entire organization, resulting in us increasing Wolfe’s profit each year.”
-- Terri Wolfe, Wolfe Mining, President
“Best leadership development program, ever! CrisMarie and Susan created and delivered our leadership development program at Clearwire over a decade ago. I’ve been to several other leadership development programs since and nothing’s compared. I had to bring them in to Twitch when we wanted to develop the EQ of our leaders here. This book is a must read if you’re a leader who wants to increase your influence.”
--Margi Lee-Johnson, Twitch, Director, Global People Operations
About the Author
CrisMarie Campbell and Susan Clarke are the founders of Thrive!—a coaching and consulting firm that specializes in helping individuals, leaders, teams and entire companies learn how to deal with differences to ignite creativity and innovation. They have a proven, step-by-step process for making teams great—a process they’ve honed working with hundreds of leaders and their teams for over 25 years.
CrisMarie’s immersion in team dynamics started early. As an Olympic and World Champion rower, she learned first-hand what makes a championship team versus simply a team of champions. She launched her career as an engineer at Boeing, where she helped initiate a groundbreaking, cross-functional team approach for how the company designs and builds airplanes. Next, CrisMarie earned her MBA and a position as a Manager at Arthur Andersen, where she coached executive business leaders around the country on the secrets to making big changes stick in their organizations. Then, as a member of Five Dysfunctions of a Team author Patrick Lencioni’s elite consulting team The Table Group, she honed her ability to turn a team around in two days flat.
Susan Clarke was also part of the Team at The Table Group. She stepped into the leadership role of her life at the age of 24, when doctors gave her just six months to live. Determined to prove them wrong, she built her own “Dream Team,” identifying a diverse group of smart health-care professionals and rallying them to work together to save her life. She then spent the next 20 years building on that success, earning her BS and then MA in education and honing her skills as a facilitator, educator and coach. Susan went on to lead transformational programs at the Haven, the prestigious professional development center in BC, Canada; facilitate in native communities, and coach “stalled” corporate executives and teams around the globe.
15 years ago, Susan and CrisMarie joined forces in both business and life. They launched Thrive! with a mission—to help individuals and teams develop their leadership skills, increasing their influence, vitality [aka mojo] and momentum for creating the changes they want to see and experience in their work and lives. They have brought their unique blend of skills and experience to Fortune 100 Companies such as Johnson & Johnson, Microsoft, AT&T and Nationwide, as well as organizations including the Gates Foundation, University of Washington Medical Center, Cray and Los Alamos National Laboratory. (Manufacturing, Small, food…)
CrisMarie and Susan live and work in Northwest Montana.
Product details
- Publisher : Two Hummingbird Press
- Publication date : October 29, 2017
- Language : English
- Print length : 296 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0999450107
- ISBN-13 : 978-0999450109
- Item Weight : 14.1 ounces
- Dimensions : 6 x 0.67 x 9 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,237,596 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #162 in Business Conflict Resolution & Mediation (Books)
- #3,072 in Communication Skills
- #4,565 in Leadership & Motivation
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About the authors
CrisMarie Campbell and Susan Clarke are speakers, coaches, consultants. Over 20 years ago they co-founded thrive! inc. They’ve worked with thousands of leaders, teams, and entire companies, including Johnson & Johnson, Microsoft, the Gates Foundation, and the San Francisco Giants.
They help build high performing teams that use conflict to drive creativity, innovation, and profit. Their proven step-by-step process is outlined in their first book, The Beauty of Conflict: Harnessing Your Team’s Competitive Advantage.
For the last 10 years, they’ve helped hundreds of romantic couples increase their passion, intimacy, and emotional connection. Their second book is, The Beauty of Conflict for Couples.
Campbell competed in the Olympics, was a Boeing flight test engineer, earned an MBA, and became a certified life and mind-body coach.
Clarke, miraculously healed a terminal cancer diagnosis, became a marriage and family counselor, business coach, and certified Equus coach.
Their podcast, The Beauty of Conflict, helps individuals, couples, teams resolve difficult conflicts, creating stronger relationships.
CrisMarie Campbell and Susan Clarke are speakers, coaches, consultants. Over 20 years ago they co-founded thrive! inc. They’ve worked with thousands of leaders, teams, and entire companies, including Johnson & Johnson, Microsoft, the Gates Foundation, and the San Francisco Giants.
They help build high performing teams that use conflict to drive creativity, innovation, and profit. Their proven step-by-step process is outlined in their first book, The Beauty of Conflict: Harnessing Your Team’s Competitive Advantage.
For the last 10 years, they’ve helped hundreds of romantic couples increase their passion, intimacy, and emotional connection. Their second book is, The Beauty of Conflict for Couples.
Campbell competed in the Olympics, was a Boeing flight test engineer, earned an MBA, and became a certified life and mind-body coach.
Clarke, miraculously healed a terminal cancer diagnosis, became a marriage and family counselor, business coach, and certified Equus coach.
Their podcast, The Beauty of Conflict, helps individuals, couples, teams resolve difficult conflicts, creating stronger relationships.
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Customers find the book easy to read, with relatable stories and clear examples. Moreover, they appreciate its relevance, with one customer noting how it helped them and their team develop the language of healthy conflict. Additionally, the book receives positive feedback for its effectiveness, with one customer highlighting its importance for organizational vitality. Customers also praise its practical tools.
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Customers find the book easy to read, with relatable stories that make it engaging. One customer notes it reads like a novel, while another mentions it provides clear examples.
"...Thank you CrisMarie and Susan for providing easy-to-digest insights and practical guidance for how to create a thriving, fulfilling and high-..." Read more
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"Loved this book! I learned that avoiding conflict does not solve problems, it just prolongs them and in some cases makes them worse...." Read more
Customers find the book relevant, with one mentioning how it helped them and their team develop the language of healthy conflict, while another notes it provides techniques for improving relationships.
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"...I found the concepts helpful in my career and in my personal relationships." Read more
Customers find the book effective, with individual reviews highlighting its practicality and applicability to team dynamics, while one customer notes its importance for organizational vitality.
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"...techniques for getting the most out of your relationships, your work and your life. Highly recommend this book. Transformational." Read more
Customers find the book easy to use, with many noting it is full of amazing tools, and one customer mentioning it provides practical guidance.
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- Reviewed in the United States on February 16, 2021This was an eye-opening look into what makes a team productive & innovative and deeply looks at the ways at both our own worldview and the way we relate to others impacts the ability for a team to function well. There were so many moments I recognized in reading the real-word examples - and more than once I wished I had read this book years ago, and saved myself and my team from likely avoidable failures. The book explores how leaning into conflict counter-intuitively brings out the best in a team both from a results and relationship perspective. It's applicable to anyone working on a team - critical for both ICs and managers to read. We'd have a very different corporate culture if leadership at all levels read, absorbed and lived the guidance that this book provides. Thank you CrisMarie and Susan for providing easy-to-digest insights and practical guidance for how to create a thriving, fulfilling and high-performance team!
- Reviewed in the United States on January 21, 2021This book helped give me and my team the language of healthy conflict, its importance, and a way to navigate it in order to lead to leaps of innovation. We read it as part of our team's book club and we were all such enthusiast readers and fans that we've gotten other people in the company to read it as well. Susan and CrisMarie's approach is relatively simple in design but profound in impact. It's definitely something you should read if you want to help you co-workers and yourself transform into a more productive, engaged, and trusting team.
- Reviewed in the United States on November 15, 2017This is an excellent book to give to everyone on your team. I love that the basic premise is the understanding that conflict is normal, even necessary for the vitality of an organization, partnership, and the individuals that make up the “team.” The book gives clear examples and personal stories to explore a variety of conflict situations, and helps us understand how conflict happens, how to be present and authentic and vulnerable (with strength) in the face of it, to reach resolution.
- Reviewed in the United States on November 11, 2017I work in the public schools and have been married for years, thus am certainly not immune to conflict. While most of the real-life examples in this book are set in private companies, the material is definitely applicable in my life too. Plus it reads like a novel with crisp, clear dialogue and is well-structured and fascinating. Now that I have sped through my first reading, I am looking forward to applying the expert advice and having this valuable resource nearby.
- Reviewed in the United States on February 3, 2019Loved this book! I learned that avoiding conflict does not solve problems, it just prolongs them and in some cases makes them worse. I found the concepts helpful in my career and in my personal relationships.
- Reviewed in the United States on February 8, 2018Buy this book immediately! So easy to read and full of amazing tools. These two women are awesome at getting real, helping you have deep conversations while making it fun at the same time. #youarewelcome
- Reviewed in the United States on November 23, 2021Well written however: Not practical. At all.
- Reviewed in the United States on November 18, 2017Powerful Tools!
Great read! Engaging stories, well-told, with SIMPLE, keep-in-your-back-pocket tools and techniques for getting the most out of your relationships, your work and your life. Highly recommend this book. Transformational.
Top reviews from other countries
- Dennis M.Reviewed in Canada on January 13, 2018
5.0 out of 5 stars Embrace the Beauty of Conflict and thrive!
The Beauty of Conflict cuts right to the chase – practical tools for real people in real situations – using conflict as fuel for the collective creativity that transforms teams to deliver extraordinary results.
We’ve all been there, experienced clashes, conflict, tension, discomfort and dysfunction. And those of us considered successful have learned to manage those situations. CrisMarie and Susan take us a quantum leap beyond just managing situations, by providing practical tools that help us embrace, even encourage, conflict as a sustainable power source for success.
CrisMarie and Susan map their models and process through conversation-style descriptions of real meetings and business situations – it feels like I’m in the room, and in many cases déjà vu! It’s fast-paced, clearly illustrated and well-organized. It delivers on its promise.
As general manager of Haven Foundation, a non-profit in British Columbia, Canada, I’ve had the privilege of engaging CrisMarie and Susan in person to work with our organization. They are accomplished facilitators, teachers and change-makers, and Beauty of Conflict captures their style, voice and passion, and delivers near equal impact. I thoroughly enjoyed it and apply its wisdom daily.
Bottom line? If you prefer the easy way – doing the same thing, expecting different results – then this book is not for you. But, if you’re up for the challenge of transformation and the stellar results that will likely follow, then dive in. Don’t wait a day longer. Embrace the Beauty of Conflict, and thrive!
- Kathleen MorrisReviewed in Canada on February 14, 2018
5.0 out of 5 stars Good to have a little help in handling it
In my work with people, that's EVERY body from family to colleagues to clients, friends, buyers, sellers, dog walkers, cyclists, fishermen...okay, you get the drift...I have suffered the agonies of conflict. This book gives me tools to turn stumbling blocks into building blocks. I may not be keen to embrace conflict and still, I'm going to meet it many times in my life. Good to have a little help in handling it, and myself!
- RolandReviewed in Canada on July 30, 2020
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent
Very worthwhile and easy to understand